So glad that I can text my old friends
such vital information.
Do you ever write letters? I’m in pretty regular contact
with the friends that I grew up with, thanks to group iMessages and them not
being around me frequently enough to remember how annoying I am. It’s been
pretty delightful figuring out how to translate my different friendships from
childhood to adulthood. While I love the convenience of only being a text away
from my old friends, sometimes it’s nice to put in a little more effort so that
they remember that I’m more than words on a screen. Unfortunately I don’t make
this happen as often as I wish it would. I’m THE laziest pen pal because I
never start writing a letter until I have something nice to send it on, and
then it can take me days to walk to the post office to send it. Which is even lazier
than it first sounds, because the post office is about 30 steps away from my
apartment. Maybe even less.
Anyway, I’ve been trying to start writing letters with my
friend Amy for a long time. I’m also supposed to have sent her my Christmas
present, but I put it off for so long because I wanted her to have a letter
with it since I would be sending her mail anyway. I mean, are Christmas
presents like wedding gifts? I have a whole year to send them right? But I
finally got it all together a few days ago, so she can have a happy middle of
the year present if the “one year” rule doesn’t hold up.
My gift for Amy is a “friendship sweater.” Last spring, I
had a dream that I had a cropped, fuzzy sweater that I shared with Amy. After
telling her about my dream, we decided that we should have an actual friendship
sweater, so we both started looking casually. I don’t remember if we agreed
that the sweater should just happen to us or if we were looking for something
more specific, but I know we wanted something more in the pink/salmon family.
Then, last December, I found Her.
Meet Elaine.
She was soft, she was cropped, and she wasn’t conventionally
beautiful. I saw Her hanging there and felt like she was already ours. She was
kind of edgy, and she was kind of ugly. She was pretending to be an alligator,
but she couldn’t hide the fact that she was really a soft, fuzzy sweater. I’m
hoping that when Amy gets Her tomorrow or the next day, she likes Her. I mailed
Her a couple days ago, and in the envelope, I also enclosed this notebook,
where I wrote Amy a letter.
My plan is that we can write our letters in the notebook and
send it back and forth with the sweater. I won’t have any excuses about not
being able to find cute paper, so it should hopefully work well. In finally
getting that whole package together, I’ve realized that it really is important
to me that we start writing to each other. I’m beyond thankful that I still
have that friendship, and friendships like that friendship, and I’m also
thankful that I’m at a point in my life where I have the time to honor that
with letters. I love my friends and I want them to know it and it’s only right
that if I have an opportunity to show them, I use it. Now if only there was a
way to make me get off my butt and walk those 30 steps to the post office…